The USA tourist visa process is a scam as far as Thai women are concerned. The law is that a consular official has to determine that a person is certain to return after visiting the USA, and unless he will certify that, no visa, no reason, no appeal. The result is that poor Thai women can pay the application fee over and over, and submit stacks of paperwork, but are always denied tourist visas. My wife’s sister married a guy from Pennsylvania 20 years ago and became a permanent resident. As our relationship moved towards possible marriage, I suggested that she come visit her sister, who had retired with her husband to Florida, and while visiting, come see our farm in rural Washington State to see if spending the summers there suited her. Her application was flawless apart from the fact that she had no money, no house, no business. USA said ‘no tourist visa’, no appeal. I was shocked. That’s when I studied up on fiancée visas, and figured out that unless she was of bad character, they couldn’t say no (or I’d sue). Given her pristine character, they finally granted approval 7 months later. It’s actually a good program, as it gives both parties time to make sure they are making a good decision. We’re not looking forward to struggling with the USA over getting permission for my wife’s grandson (now 4) to come visit the USA when he is older. I wish they would allow me to put up a big surety bond guaranteeing his return, but there is no such option. The best we could do was to have my wife become a US citizen as soon as the law allowed, so we no longer would have to kowtow to USCIS.